Q&A with the 2024 HoneyBee CNF Prize Judge, Teri Youmans
by Christine Nessler
April 15, 2024
Teri Youmans is a fourth-generation Floridian. She received her BFA in poetry at the University of Nebraska at Omaha and her MFA at Vermont College of Fine Arts. She’s published two poetry collections. Her first, Dirt Eaters, was chosen for the University of Central Florida’s contemporary poetry series and was published by the University Press of Florida. Her second book, Becoming Lyla Dore, was published by Red Hen Press. Teri is the recipient of a Nebraska Arts Fellowship and has been awarded residencies at Millay Arts, Virginia Center for the Creative Arts, and the Hambidge Center. She has taught in Creighton University’s MFA Program, at the University of North Florida, and in the University of Nebraska at Omaha’s low-res MFA program. She is currently at work on a memoir about alligator hunting, generational abuse, and dancing with the devil. Teri lives in Jacksonville, Florida.
Youmans is the non-fiction judge of the 2024 HoneyBee Creative Nonfiction Prize for The Good Life Review.
Tell us about the memoir you’re currently writing. What moved you to tackle this emotional project?
The memoir is titled, A Good Girl from the Deep South, which kind of covers it. I was a “good girl” by birth, earnest as all get out, trusting, sensitive (overly so in my family’s estimation), and obedient. But those qualities made me vulnerable to danger in ways I wasn’t prepared for, particularly growing up in the 1970s and 80s in northeast Florida.
When I was quite young, my daddy put a cigar out in my hand. It was, I guess, supposed to be a trick? But his demeanor, the burn and the blister sure didn’t make it feel like one. My baffled sisters asked me at the time, “Why the heck did you stick your hand out in the first place?” The memoir is essentially recognizing and trying to understand the girl and young adult I was, the one who would willingly stick her hand out time and time again.
As to why I was moved to tackle this project, I was raised in a household in which I wasn’t allowed to use my voice, to have my own opinions, to defend myself, etc., Part of that was generational, regional, religious, and plain old patriarchy. I wanted to unpack all of that — what led to my father being who he was, understanding the terrible things my mother endured and how that led to her own silence and the cumulative effects on my own life as I attempted to navigate the world, particularly the world of men.
How has teaching honed your own writing skills or inspired you?
Having to communicate what I know on a subject makes me more aware of my own strengths and deficiencies and gives me a sense of where I have room for improvement. Also, because I preach authenticity and honoring one’s own unique sensibility, experiences and voice, to not strive toward those beliefs in my own work would be hypocritical. All of which is to say, teaching has helped me to consider the writer I am and why and to embrace that rather than trying to be something I’m not.
Why has intention become your teaching philosophy?
My thoughts on intention rise from that divide that often occurs between our vision for a piece of work and what ends up on the page. It’s something every writer I know wrestles with. It seems to me our intention for something is innately tied with who we are, how we see the world, and what brought us to writing in the first place. If during the writing process, one stops and asks oneself, what do I want my reader to come away knowing or feeling at the end of a page, a story, a poem, etc., we can see if the details, the language, the dialogue, for instance, are contributing to that end or not. It can become a blueprint for revision, hopefully encouraging one to seek creative means of achieving an end. For me, writing close to an understanding of our intention is part of writing authentically.
You have experience in poetry, fiction, and creative nonfiction/memoir. What is your favorite genre to write in and why?
I think for me it depends on the subject matter and how close to the truth I want to stick to. Right now, memoir and essays are my favorite, but I think that’s because I’m currently neck-deep in that genre.
What is your favorite genre to read and why?
I like to read everything! I usually have several books going at once and I love rereading books that mean a lot to me.
What authors have influenced your writing most and why?
I’m not sure how much they’ve influenced my writing, though I’d be delighted if anyone thought they had! But writers I love are Elizabeth Bishop, CD Wright, Harry Crews, Zora Neale Hurston, Flannery O’Connor, Toni Morrison, and Marjorie Kinnan Rawlings. I’m drawn to work that pays great attention to details and seeks ways to get to an emotional and enduring truth about a moment, an event, or a situation…work that has compassion, gives dignity to people who are often thought of as unimportant for one reason or another.
As a judge of the HoneyBee this year, what positive attributes will you look for in the non-fiction pieces you review?
Attention to language, an authenticity and honesty of voice. The work can be traditional or experimental, humorous or serious, as long as the writer is present on the page, I like all kinds of styles, approaches, and subject matter.
What makes a story or memoir stand out to you?
Richness of details, particularly the kind of details that are so specific and unique to the moment and the writer, that I’m placed smack dab in the experience with them.
What tips do you have for fellow non-fiction/memoir writers?
Everyone has a story to tell. And I find that some writers think compelling subject matter is enough to carry a book. It isn’t. A memoir, for instance, isn’t just an accounting of this happened and then this happened and then this happened… The writer has to go inside those moments sometimes, hold them up to the light, look at them from various angles and make something of them, explore how they’ve been affected or changed by them. And don’t underestimate how important voice is, particularly in memoir. It may take a while to capture your most authentic, thoughtful self on the page, but once you do, the writing flows more easily.
Thank you, Teri, for your willingness to spend time with us on this interview! We love how you encourage people to find and use their own unique voice which is so vital in the writing of creative nonfiction. We are excited to work with you on the contest this year and hope you enjoy reading the essays that are headed your way soon!
If you want an opportunity to have your creative nonfiction read by Teri, details about the contest and a link to the submission platform are on our 2024 Honeybee Prize page.